Sunday 22 March 2015

The Lemon

Today we went to El Limón, the next town over to hike to the waterfall (I went up on horseback before). A 9 year old boy called Carlos asked did we want him to be our guide, and we couldn´t resist. It seemed like destiny for he was wearing a wonderful t-shirt (most people buy their clothes from second-hand stores with donations from America).

The guagua to El Limón with Jess, Leire and Andrea

My main man Carlos


View from the hike



Carlos was wearing wellies, and he bounded over rocks and swung off branches on the way to the waterfall. When we got up to the top, he jumped in the water and with all the other local boys started doing tricks. Some completely insane teenagers climb up, scale horizontally the face of the waterfall and leap off. Terrifying.



Carlos´s cousin

The kids from Las Terrenas often don´t know how to swim and rarely go to the beach, even though they live in a beach town, but the kids here work at the waterfall so their relationship with it is totally different. They go to school Monday-Friday and on weekends or public holidays they take tourists up on horseback or walking. Besides the usual independence a Dominican kid displays, these kids are country boys and jump off waterfalls, scramble up and down rocks and swim like fish. All the guides wore wellies, and a lot of them swam in them. Madness.

After we went to el arroyo, a natural pool with a bar and thumping music. No firearms or knives allowed, as the below sign helpfully informs us.


We swam in the fresh, cold water and had a couple of Presidente beers before getting the guagua back. Only the foreigners swim in bikinis. For some reason, the Dominicans all swim fully dressed. But they have a good time doing it.



I leave you with a girl and her dog, waiting for a lift at the side of the road. 


Thursday 19 March 2015

El barrio, or, The Town That Grew Too Fast

Come Pan

We had a tour around a barrio called Come Pan when I first arrived here, but I didn´t want to write about it yet without understanding this place more. Jose, the director of the foundation I work for brought us around, and told us about Las Terrenas and its history.

Las Terrenas was only founded in 1946 when the then President Trujillo sent families to live there from Santo Domingo. It was a fishing town with about 12 to 15 families that intermarried. They could walk out to the lagunas at low tide and grab fish to eat. The fruit and vegetables that grow freely helped too. Life was pretty sweet. Then in the 70s the French arrived and wanted a piece of paradise. More and more arrived and greed overtook foresight. Planning was never considered, they just bought up all the good property and looked after their own facilities. The rest of the town sprouted up without thought or care. Planning still isn´t a consideration among many of the poorest people here – how can you care about planning when nothing feels permanent? When you don´t know what you´re going to be able to eat tomorrow, how can you think about your natural resources in the future? Children become mothers become grandmothers pretty quickly here. That bit of history explained a lot to me about why things are the way they are here. The infrastructure is terrible, many people don´t value education or consideration for the environment. The politicians are short-sighted and selfish, and short-term money is more important than thinking about the town´s future. Most of the money comes from Europe and stays in the hands of Europeans who are not the ones in need of education or empowerment.

Anyways, back to the barrio. It´s called Come Pan - Eat bread. The people were unfazed by the presence of a half a dozen foreigners. I imagine Jose has done this tour several times. Some, mainly kids, stared. They looked, because they always do, but they said hello and smiled and waved. Women and children and some men were outside houses. So many different types of plants grew – marañones (cashew apples, which I guess have cashews on them), avellanas (hazelnuts, but they looked different to what I know to be hazelnuts), tamarind, yuca, hibiscus (I think), and many I can`t remember. There were lovely dogs everywhere. Some houses were nicer than others. Some were tin roofed shacks seemingly assembled with whatever was to hand. There was one mini palace amidst rubbish. Rubbish, rubbish everywhere though in places you saw people had made effort to clean up their space. But it is startling how many people don´t seem to notice the plastic and styrofoam all over the streets, in the water, around their houses... 

 Photos by Andrea Correa

In the above photo, there are three little shacks. The one in the middle had a full fridge, oven and stove inside. The owner was sitting outside shelling guandules, or pigeon peas. She didn´t seem to mind when Jose took the bowl out of her hand to show us and started talking to us in English.

We talked to a young girl, and Jose commented that her sister used to come to the foundation´s library  a lot, but she became a prostitute to help her family. The cleanest place in the Come Pan barrio is a brothel. I just thought it was a bar. It looked like the outdoor area of a rural restaurant in Spain.

I bought a warm corn drink dessert thing in a plastic cup for 15 pesos (about €0.30) from a woman with a little folding table set up at the side of the road. It was like sweetcorn tapioca. We saw young men and boys training cocks for fighting and two children running around naked, one of them alone. The majority of the children were well cared for and dressed and clean, with their hair done. As we were entering the barrio, children were returning from school, in clean uniforms, sometimes on the back of motorbikes. I saw two Evangelical churches. They were much nicer than the buildings around them.

I need to go back again and take more photos because I didn´t feel right taking photos of the people, I felt it was intrusive to take out my iPhone and stick it in front of someone´s kid. Now that I´ve been here longer I feel I could go and talk to people and be less invasive.

If you want to see some of the work done by Fundación Mahatmi Gandhi, who I work for, click here.

Thursday 12 March 2015

El hombre dominicano

Men.

You could write a thesis on the Dominican man.  And the Haitian man in the Dominican Republic. And the European tourist in the Dominican Republic. There are many different types of men here, and I can only really talk about the men who go out to bars and nightclubs and who hang out on the street and who talk to foreign women. Because they´re the only ones I know well enough to write about. And the saga of the foreign, white man here is another blog post entirely.

WARNING: I am about to generalise massively.

The typical Dominican man here:
  • Is manly. He like man things, like motorbikes. He also likes romantic latin music, strangely enough.
  •  Dresses flashily when he goes out. Particularly the sanky pankys (to be discussed below).
  • Tells you what he thinks you want to hear. Even if, bless him, it´s mostly very, very far off the mark.
  • Amoroso. He tells you about he loves you while you´re dancing with him for the first time.
  • Vocal in his appreciation for the beauty of the fairer sex. Whether you want to hear it or not.

The men that I meet out and about are Dominican and Haitian. They are generally under the age of 40, and over the age of 20. They often have children, but are rarely with the mother(s) of the child/children (if they were they wouldn´t be out talking to foreigners, or they wouldn´t tell you they were with the mother of their child). They are possessive – if a woman is talking to a group of men and talks more to one than the others, she is now his. Everyone else backs away. The woman may not know this but the man she is talking to and all his friends have designated her to him, by reading her signs. 

A single woman cannot normally be friends with a single man in this country. She may think she is, but that´s not what he, or anyone else, reads it as.

There are, of course, multiple exceptions. My American colleague is engaged to a lovely Dominican man who is polite, respectful, thoughtful and friendly with her colleagues and friends. There is the father of one of my students who is a community organiser and his daughter´s biggest fan. He´s friendly and respectful and communicates well with us. I know that my contact with Dominican men is limited to the men who are out and about and trying to talk to foreign women.

This leads us to sanky pankys.

Sanky pankys are the guys who try and get with foreign women for the benefits these liaisons bring. They go for women of all ages, and those that are on holidays and here year-round. These women end up being their “girlfriends” and maintain their “boyfriends” to some respect. It seems they might give money here and there to help a “sick relative”, and give gifts. Then when they visit, they have their “boyfriend” here. Some of these couples marry and leave the country, and apparently these marriages often end in divorce. There are, of course, happy relationships of equals that occur between foreigner women and Dominican men, and I bet it´s pretty annoying when people look at your relationship and presume there is a financial interest. But when you see the 50 year old Italian woman with a 22 year old handsome Dominican man, you are probably presuming rightly…


Luckily, for all those gals out there wondering if they´ve fallen for the Sanky Panky´s charms, there is a handy quiz to help you find out. A British woman who married a Dominican man (a non-Sanky Panky) writes this blog about regular, low-income life as a gringa in rural DR. This sanky panky-identifying quiz is there to guide the sisterhood when picking a local love. She also has a side business here with expat advice and help if all ends badly and sister needs to divorce her mister. Phew.

Thursday 5 March 2015

Las Ballenas

I´m not really sure what to write about in this post, because my thoughts are disorganised. I guess I could write about:

- whale watching
- clothes shopping
- the next pueblo over
- motoconchos
- cheese

Let´s see how far I get.

On the Samana peninsula, where I live, the biggest tourist attraction between January and March is the whales. The whole population of the North Atlantic Humpback whales come to Samana bay to mate and breed every year. And though this is a huge event for tourists, many locals never see the whales, so the school makes a big effort to go every year. The scholarship students get sponsored to go, and a wonderful whale watching boat gives the school a discount so that students and parents can go at a discounted rate. We took various cars and a guagua to Samana, about 30 minutes drive away at 9am. From there, we got on a boat to go to Cayo Levantado, aka Bacardi Island because of the Bacardi ads filmed there in the 80s (trying to find a clip got me stuck in a 20 minute YouTube Bacardi commercial loop).

My colleagues Estacey, Estefaney and Estefaney´s daughter Samantha on the boat.

Surprisingly, the boat had lifejackets for all the kids.


Cayo Levantado

Cayo Levantado is a beautiful island about 3km squared. It now has a big hotel on it and facilities, so it´s not a exactly a deserted Carribean island, but the white sands and clear turqoise water make it well worth it.
Me and Laura, my daughter for the day.

My housemate Andrea with the kids.

The gorgeous Benneton ad that is our students

After 3 hours hanging out on Cayo Levantado, in which I managed to get pretty burnt (P20 suncream isn´t THAT water resistant I´ve learned...), we got picked up by the whale watching boat and went in search of whales. 

Watching for whales with Andrea

The Humpbacks don´t feed in these warm waters, so we didn´t see any of the cool feeding behaviours, but we did see some other stuff. First a juvenile whale kind of sidled up to the boat and just hung out there, relaxing on the top of the water. He/she was obviously interested in the boat and whenever he went under, he came up again on the other side. He basically did nothing except for lie on the top of the water, a resting position which is how they sleep. He was keeping an eye on us though. It was cool because we could see him up close, but also kind of boring afrer a while. We moved on. We could see spouts in the distance and some tails diving, there were definitely a lot of whales in the bay - 12,000 pass through every year. Eventually we found a mother and a baby. It was the first sighting of this baby, and he was the 18th this year. The baby breached (jumped up) more than a dozen times so we could see his whole body, and once the mother breached too. Kim, our guide, told us that the mother feeds her baby 200 litres of milk a day, and that it is thick like yoghurt. She pumps it out and the baby, swimming under her, catches it in his mouth. For 6 months the mother doesn´t eat, and while she loses up to a third of her body weight, baby puts on 100 pounds a day. 

I didn´t take any photos because I kind of feel there´s no point - I don´t want to miss anything by looking through my iPhone the whole time - but below is one taken by a student. It seems pretty far away, but it wasn´t really. Or maybe it was, but it didn´t seem it...

The whale watching group we went with, Whale Samana, have wonderful photos on their Facebook page and they took more amazing ones on our trip, but haven´t uploaded them yet.

All my typing has made me miss Zumba on the beach. Which is kind of a relief, because it´s very public and lots of men pull over just to watch us. It´s pretty embarrassing, even for an attention-seeking performer like myself.

Photo by Kiran Bourget Snyder